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Sunday, 7 March 2010
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| Ukrainian brides from Kiev region, Ukraine,www.aprilbeauty.net Leon 13:46:04 |
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Saturday, 1 August 2009
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| Marriage Counseling Guest 10:46:23 |
| | Every marriage relationship can be saved if there is a little soft corner in heart of any partner. He believed that even god can not restore his marriage but lately God's faith and beliefs save his marriage permanently. Christian marriage counseling is very effective and comprises of ancient way of resolving family and couples relationship conflicts and this ensures permanent and long-lasting relationship. It is effective because person behavior and mind is totally changed and diverted to positivism, people leans to forgive, It is also called behavior modification and spiritual healing of soul. So I want to say again that every worst relationship can be saved. Believe in God.
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Saturday, 9 February 2008
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| Russian chat in english language (not login required) Natalia V. 10:48:45 |
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Monday, 10 December 2007
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Monday, 14 August 2006
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| Oprah and Dr. Phil on the outs, Oprah a no-show at his son's wedding Keepin It Real 09:41:50 |
| | http://www.tmz.com/2006/08/13/exclusive-inside-scoop-on-mcgraw-wedding/
EXCLUSIVE: Inside Scoop on McGraw Wedding
Posted Aug 13th 2006 9:17PM by TMZ Staff
Jay McGraw, the son of TV pop psychologist Dr. Phil, got married on
Saturday in Beverly Hills to former Playboy Playmate Erica Dahm and
Oprah was a notable no-show, TMZ has learned.
If there was any doubt that Dr. Phil and Oprah are on the outs,
Oprah's absence from the nuptials of the son of her onetime prot g
may just have confirmed it.
As for the wedding itself, TMZ has learned that the reception was held
at the swanky Beverly Hills Hotel right around the corner from Dr.
Phil's estate, where the ceremony was performed. Of the 400 guests,
the best-known celeb amongst them was talk-show legend Larry King.
The musical entertainment was a highlight of the occasion songwriter
extraordinaire David Foster played piano with the wedding band, and
R&B singer-producer Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds performed three songs,
which Foster had rehearsed with the band for five hours. The result,
says our source, was "amazing."
Some of the toasts given on behalf of the new couple seemed a little
off-key; one of the bride's sisters, for instance, said, "When we
first met Jay, we thought he was a jackass but he turned out to be
this wonderful nice guy." Dr. Phil was somewhat more charitable to his
new daughter-in-law, saying with glass raised, "For a lot of girls,
Erica is an easy girl to hate. She's skinny and beautiful. . . In this
country, there's no such thing as an arranged marriage, but if there
were, we'd want to arrange for Erica to marry Jay."
During the reception, guests noshed on such treats as
mini-cheeseburgers, French fries, and little root beer floats, all
said to be scrumptious. Cameras were out in force, with coverage to
come on Dr. Phil's syndicated talk show.
The happy couple, who met on the set of a 2004 FOX reality show, is
taking their honeymoon in Fiji.
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Sunday, 13 August 2006
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| Some good news involving marriage A. 23:54:50 |
| | My DD23 and her fiance (28) picked out their rings a week ago -
looks like he might pop the question this weekend. They've
been dating for 6 years, and one of his concerns before getting
engaged was that they sit down and have a series of talks about
what marriage really means, to each of them. He thought maybe
they should read a book on marriage together or something like
that.
Having just found this place, I suggested marriagebuilders.com
to my daughter, and her fiance found it to be much to his liking
as well. They did the exercises, found they had some similar
and some dissimilar "top needs" for their marriage - and realized
they had a lot of talking to do. They've been talking for a few
weeks, and within that time, the ring got purchased - and a special
event planned for this weekend.
He's a great guy - wants to talk to her dad, me, her stepdad about
responsibility, how we view their marriage, where we think they
could use work, where we might have gone wrong. These talks
have been on-going, especially with my DH and me. He'll be
spending the weekend with our bunch, so we'll get more time to
talk. I think he's such a responsible guy and they're both way more
mature than my ex and I were at our first go-round.
So, without this ng, I wouldn't have found the marriagebuilders
resource (we're using it, my friend with the cheating husband is
using it, now my daughter and fiance are into it). Pretty cool.
A.
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| Don't tell me women are second-class citizens Doug Laidlaw 23:29:26 |
| | Men are. They give up living to give their women what the women want. Never
suggest that your wife should share your interests. You have to abandon them
and follow hers. You must move to this rubbish-dump of humanity because it
saves money (to which only God comes second, and other humans about 100th,
and husbands last of all) to move 20 years before time, then pay for it by
taking a raft of pills, when all that they need is a bit of intelligent
conversation, about something other than what happened on the woman's only
reality - the television soap. Then, because married men live longer than
single men, they have nothing to look forward to except a lingering, slow death.
R. L. Stevenson put it this way: "Times are changed with him who marries; there
are no more by-path meadows, where you may innocently linger, but the road lies
long and straight and dusty to the grave."
Tell me, which one is the second-class citizen?
Doug L.
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Courtship to marriage is like a very prologue to a very dull play.
Or Shelley's: When a man marries, dies or turns Hindoo
His best friends hear no more of him.
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| OT: My bday thoughts Shinypenny 20:33:41 |
| | (I originally posted this in the stop smoking support group, but I
thought this group might also be interested in my update.... )
Today's my 41st bday, and I am a non-smoker. It's so great to be able
to say that!!!!!!!!
The best gift I received today was from my mom, who surprised me by
telling me she'd also quit smoking... three weeks ago!! She lurks on
usenet and always follows my posts, but never posts herself. I guess I
inspired her... we all did! Let's here it for shinypenny's mom!!!
The second-best gift my DH gave me is an ipod (a few days early), and
I'm having a lot of fun with it. Last night we picked up the Nike Sport
Kit so I can track my walking goals with it. Since my late 20s, I
dreamed of running a marathon by the time I was 40. Unfortunately, in
my mid-30s, back problems and taking up smoking again completely
derailed that plan. I watched my 40th come and go, and I probably
smoked two packs of cigs on that day last year.
Today I'm thinking, I may never be able to run again, but who knows?
Maybe I will someday walk a marathon?? It's not too late for that. It's
never too late, is it? Since quitting smoking 6 weeks ago, I've slowly
increased my exercise from zero (slovenly couch potato) to walking
about 45-50 minutes 4-5 times a week at what is seeming like a fairly
brisk pace to me (I huff, and I puff... but it's all fresh air, not
nicotine!). Then every night I do 20 minutes of yoga stretching. I used
to think walking was so... lame....(esp compared to running) but I'm
finding I truly enjoy it afterall.
I feel great - even my back feels good these days. Even though I
gained 10 lbs since I quit 6 weeks ago, I feel awesome. I feel far
better than I felt one year ago at 40, when I weighed less (could fit
into my "skinny" dress, sigh, which I can't zip today) but was weak and
couldn't breath as deeply and easily without coughing and hacking up a
lung.
Yesterday on my walk this is what I thought about:
- I started smoking at age 13
- I'm now 41. 41-13=28
- subtract my longest 7 year quit = 21
- subtract another year for all those shorter quits= 20
- 41-20= 21
.... I have been a *non*smoker longer than I have been a smoker!! Woo
HOO!!!
For some reason, I find that supremely motivating! All I have to do now
is never smoke again, and I can honestly say I did not spend the
majority of my life smoking.
jen
One month, two weeks, one day, 19 hours, 47 minutes and 40 seconds. 916
cigarettes not smoked, saving $229.12. Life saved: 3 days, 4 hours, 20
minutes.
P.s. for La Mer:
The other day our upstairs neighbors had friends over on their back
deck. I was in the front of the house, all our windows were closed (AC
on). I started smelling smoke. The neighbors' guests were smoking on
the back deck. I could not believe I could smell it in our house!!!
Must've come through the AC unit somehow, even though it's far away
from the back deck... and I thought of you and how you once said you
could smell when your neighbors smoked outside, even if your windows
were closed, and how I didn't believe you. Well, I believe you now!!!!!
It's amazing how strong my sense of smell is these days.... I need to
change my laundry detergent because I'm finding the fragrance
particularly annoying. 
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| MATCHING OF PLANATORY CONFIGURATIONS BEFORE MARRIAGE Munish 20:12:38 |
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KUNDALI MILAN IS NOT ORTHODOX PROCESS INSTEAD A SCIENTIFIC PROCESS
Astrologer Shri Vaibhav Bhatnagar of Quest,is of the view that
in matching the planetory and constelasionary configurations of
husband and wife before marriage tells us about their nature and
habits so that they can minimise the problems which may come to
their life later on.From the recent past we see that the
relationships
in young couple is breaking very fast which is the cause of concern
for the parents because everybody wants lasting relationships
in husband and wife.We observe from the present that everybody is
again
inclined towards the matching of planatory configurations of their
children.
Their are 8 ghatak which play the important role and are related to
36 characters.Out of these 8 ghataks,3 ghataks are such which
amount
to 21 characters and if these 3 ghataks are matched then the Kundli
is matched.For a good marriage atleast 20 characters must match.The
3 important ghataks which should match are NADHI,BHAKUT and GANA.
(1)NADHI:Out of 36 characters Nadhi constitutes 8 characters.They
are of 3 types ADI,MADHYA and ANT.If Nadhi of husband and wife are
different then it is considerd as GOOD and constitute for 8 charac-
ters and if Nadhi is same then there is NADHI DOSH,therefore they
there will be problem in their life but if the RASHI LORD of the
two is same then they can marry because of the same RASHI LORD
their habits,thoughts,and nature will be same so they will carryon
their life.
Actually due to NADHI DOSH it is said that there will be problems
in child bearing.Normally it is seen that when there is NADHIDOSH
the GENES of the husband and wife are similer which cause the
deformity in child,this is a biological fact but when astrology
started the concept of GENE was not there and nor D.N.A.test was
there.Therefore,we conclude if the male and female with same NADHI
(means having same GENES)are married they may give birth to a
deformed child.
(2)BHAKUT:It comprises of 7 characters.It is about the difference
in the RASHI of the male and the female getting married.Although
it do not have direct impact in marriage but due bad difference
in Rashi's of the two it can create many kind of differences in the
life of the husband and wife which can lead to any extant, it can
break,the life can be very expensive,it can lead upto death also.
BHAKUT DOSH can be removed by performing puja of the RASHI LORDS
of the two.
(3)GANA:It consists of 6 characters and is of 3 types.They are
DEVA GANA,MANUSHYA GANA and RAKCHAS GANA.If male and female have
the same GANA then it is considerd as the best.
Thus,we see if the three GHATAKS are matched they comprises
of 8+7+6=21 characters and more then 20 characters matched means
a good marriage.Rest 5 Ghataks VARNA,VAISHYA,TARA,YONIand GRIHA-
MAITRI.these 5 ghataks comprise of 15 characters.These characters
balance the mental and natural imbalance of the husband and wife.
Apart from all these there is MANGALIC DOSH.MANGLIC DOSH exists
only when planet MARS is placed at certain specific home in the
planetory configurations.
Thus it is apparent from the fact that the matching of
planetory configuration of the male and femafe before marriage
has scientific reasons also. I invite you people to discuss how
much relevance is there to match the planatory configurations
of the male and female before marriage?
I also invite you to become member of VIVAH_POINT for various
reasons which may
guide us out of your experience in your life.
your's
MUNISH BANERJEE
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| Is it me? or is this really messed up? Lukin4intellect@Gmail.Com 13:53:03 |
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hi everyone, can someone help me find another perspective on this? or
point me in the right direction to get some advice?
So we've been married for 3 years and we have a baby girl. We've both
been divorced before but I think we've both put that behind us; but I
guess there may be some left-over stuff.
anyway, I dont wanna say this is her fault, I wanted to actually find
out who may be in the wrong. I guess she would have to say her side too
huh for that to work?
anyway, basically, Im an easy going guy. I go along with anything she
wants to do, I actually like it that way cause I really love her and I
like doing things for her.
I guess I'll just write down a few things that happened, instead of
making my own judgements:
1. anytime I tell her she's doing something wrong, no matter how
politely, she comes up with excuses or clams up or starts pointing out
things I do wrong.
2. she's very unorganized. The house is always a mess, she leaves
things everywhere, never picks up after herself until the end of the
day, but all day its just messy.
3. she also leaves out anything she agrees to do. We have so much stuff
left to do ... all she does is sit around watch tv, or sometimes she'll
start doing EVERYTHING at the same time and then leave everything
unfinished.
4. she's always nagging about one thing or another. Its always just
about this errand or that errand, we never talk about anything
meaningful.
5. all the progess she makes after we do have a productive talk, goes
to waste within 3-4 days. Nothing really comes of what we discuss.
6. she's losing all energy and enthusiasm to do stuff. Whatever she
does now, she does with negative energy, complaints and ... regrets!
is this normal? is this pointing towards someone who's depressed? are
all women like this? any ideas on how I can approach this? when she
wont listen to anything or do anything about the stuff she DOES listen
to.
any help would be GREATLY appreciated! thanks so much.
Luking4intellect
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| Getting a vasectomy and the wife isn't happy... SpankyTClown 02:29:24 |
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And she's gone absolutely batshit.
We have two awesome kids, 2 and 4. We pay about $1900 a month on
fulltime daycare because homecare isn't what she wants. Which is fine,
the daycare is good and has decent structure along the line of learning
the basics in French and English. So the value is there, the kids are
happy there, therefore I'm happy with the situation. She wants the
kids in Gymboree clothing only, that's cool. The kids are well
dressed, getting educated and happy, therefore I'm happy.
Thing is, I don't want any more kids. I've talked with my wife about
it over the last year, she shuts down and that's that. End of
discussion on her side, because I don't want anymore kids. So recently
I decided that it's not her body so I'm in line to get the Johnston
tied. I've talked to other Dads that have had the same procedure done,
it's a in-out procedure that takes 15 minutes and you feel like you've
been kicked in the nuts for about a day.
Now she's threatening me with the big Divorce because she wants a
third. I don't want a third, at all. I can think of $900 good reasons
per month as to why I don't want a thrid, not including all the other
things that have to get done and paid for. I'm getting older and I'm
not interested in having a teen in the house when I'm in my fifties. I
don't own a farm and don't need farm hands to bring in the cows. At
this point in time cleaning up rice and cereal (how the hell does it
get into the office computer chasis'?) for two is what I'm expected to
do. Cooking the dinner is what I'm expected to do? Bringing in a good
paycheck is expected of me, if not required.
It's a lot of work, I see the rewards but I just don't see the need for
a third child in the house. It's hard enough spending time with both
of them. A third...ummm...nope. So I'm off to the doctor.
And my wife wants me out, divorced, gone. Who the hell knows
anymore...it's been a week of major annoyance because she wouldn't
accept what I mentioned to her a year ago.
Any thoughts from anybody? Did your wife spilt or did you leave your
husband because of one partner did not want anymore kids. I'm just
looking for a bit of reassurance here and prep on if I'm expecting a
divorce here.
We've have our arguements before, but this one is bad and she's getting
ugly about it.
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Saturday, 12 August 2006
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| Feeling Sad.... Guest 06:41:47 |
| | I had an affair. It was brief, but my hubby found out. Now we are
struggling to make our marriage work. We've gone to counseling and
have had too many fights since the affair to count and its coming up
to the one year mark. I have had so many emotions since then and I
have cried so many tears. I have had bouts where I feel guilty and
then in a heartbeat feel angry. Now I just feel sad. I see my husband
in a new light since he found out. I truly believed I was the
background of his foreground and that I didn't matter. Now I know that
was never the case. I blew the trust and now he is so paranoid that I
am gonna do it again . I want somehow to show him and get it into his
head and heart that I am sorry and that I am committed to make it up to
him for the rest of my life. But I can't seem to shake this overall
sadness. I know he feels the same too. Any comments?
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| back to the usual Zorra 06:07:15 |
| | I *knew* it wouldn't last! I held off on saying that things were
getting better because I just knew that as soon as I did, he'd be back
to his usual self. And sure enough, he is.
This time the scathing looks and venomous tone were used to inform me
that I should "be a parent" to my daughter instead of "trying to be
her friend." I am *furious*!!! I am the only parent she's ever had.
He alternately rages at her and jokes with her, but he never "parents"
her. I'm the one that makes sure she has food and clothes and
supplies, and gets to the doctor and dentist and orthodontist, and
that her homework is done, and that we have someone to look after her
when we're both working. I'm the one who knows what is going on in
her life, who knows her friends and their parents, and her teachers
and principals. I'm the one who gets to every school event, who
volunteers. When he would only shake his head and say, "We gotta do
something with her," *I'm* the one who researched and found a good
therapist, and who took care of all the logistics. And I'm the on
there with her every week.
And you know what? Despite her troubles, I've done a great job with
her! She's beautiful and slender and smart as a whip. She's in
honors classes and passed four out of the five standardized state
tests with a "passed advanced" score, and "passed proficient" in the
fifth. I know how to talk to her so that she actually gets things
done, and how to get her to and through things without her escalating
into a fury. I'm able to quietly encourage her socially. I'm able,
often, to reason with her and have her respond.
But no -- because I don't yell at her and issue decrees, I'm a bad
parent! Because she wasn't in bed at the time that he decreed
(without discussion or any stated reason) that she should be, I'm a
bad parent!
What an idiot.
Zorra
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| Re: OT:Tofu Ramblings La Mer 04:13:49 |
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Doug Anderson wrote:> "La Mer" <judgedl@gmail.com> writes:>
Emma Anne wrote:> > > jwb <nobody@nowhere.com> wrote:> > > "La Mer" <judgedl@gmail.com> wrote in message> > > > news:1155247118.322121.266360@74g2000cwt.googlegroups.com...> > > > > There's none, as far as I can tell. They are *psychologically* addicting> > > > >> though, because it's a very pleasant, relaxing hour that you're smoking> > > > > What could possibly be relaxing while inhaling that heinous stench???> > > > > I guess there are some things in life that I just don't get, just> > > > > won't get and simply don't care to get!> > > > tofu being one of mine > > > Me too. > > One good thing about tofu is that when I enjoy it, no one else has to> > smell it. I keep wondering what it is about tofu that has so many> > people gagging over it. Is it the texture? When it's fresh tofu that> > has just made, eating it with a bit of soy sauce is amazingly delicious> > (if it's good, home made, fresh...kind of like mozarella which is> > nothing like the store bought stuff) However, even if it's not the> > fresh, great kind, tofu is rather tasteless, therefore, how it's> > prepared is what makes it good (or not good). I suppose it's easy to> > mess up any food if cooked flavorlessly, overcooked or or undercooked> > (meat, fish, etc.) So is it the texture? The texture too can be> > changed by freezing tofu when you first buy it. You let it defrost and> > then you cook it. It is then a thicker, chewier consistency.> > But then again, I guess it's not an important enough food for some> > people to try to like. I just see it as a great alternative to animal> > products.> Well, I don't like tofu, but I don't really gag over it. (Though I> like to pretend that I do.) I even cook with it occasionally.
I think that's what I don't understand. Why people have that pretend
reaction to it like theyh're gagging and are going to die. What is up
with that? I feel like gagging when I see raw meat or poultry, but
it's because of the thought of it having once been alive and now it's
going to be cooked and consumed. Do soybeans nauseate you? I"m being
facetious. There's something about the word tofu that seems to elicit
the (pretend gag) reaction in many. Even without ever trying it.>
But I can tell you _exactly_ why I have a negative reaction to it -> it is in thinking of it as an alternative to animal products. Carob> as a chocolate alternative provokes the same reaction in me.
I used to eat carob when my oldest was little. He loved it and I
thought it was okay. I'd never buy it today...ick. The only
difference between carob and chocolate is caffeine...carob has sugar
too. I don't care about the caffeine; although I did when my son was
little. Oh yeah, the other difference is good taste >
Tofu, as a food, is fairly neutral (though I dislike the> richness-but-no-actual-flavor-aspect of it). As an alternative to> meat, it is a sore disappointment!
That's what I try to understand...not liking it or hating it or gagging
over something that really and truly doesn't have taste until the cook
prepares it. Many have tried our alternative "meat" stuff and some
have just loved it and others hate it. Now that I understand. But
tofu itself, it makes no sense. Even as Emma Anne stated, everyone has
different taste; tofu doesn't have a taste without preparing it as one
would prepare an animal product. Do meat eaters like uncooked
hamburger meat? Do those who like meat, ever get gaggy over the meat
when it's raw? I used to get really gaggy but then again, I've always
disliked meat, even as a baby (I've been told).>
I love food, and I love to eat (and I even like to cook. But I like> ingredients that _taste_ like something. Tofu doesn't make it there> for me.
Have you ever bought the cooked ones that are seasoned and are in the
fridge section? They come in Thai, Mexican, etc. and are wonderful!
The world's worst tofu is the stuff that comes in wrapped tight
cardboard-ish paper, sold on the shelves in the grocery store. It is
horrible and I'm thinking that maybe that's what those who hate tofu,
have tasted. It's like some slippery, slimy disgusting object and I
can understand hating tofu if that's all one has tasted. My mom bought
it once and I cooked it for her and I couldn't eat it.
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