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Tuesday, 8 August 2006
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| Re: Question of the day.... 8/07/06 Weeks 17:05:40 |
| | Always have to make the bed. It's something my mother always made us do and
has carried over to my own home, gratefully.
smiles,
Elise
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| new here Judawnhawk@Aol.Com 16:38:48 |
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Hello. I'm new to this group. I really would like to be able to reach
out more to people and believe in myself. Currently in therapy and
working to heal. Any helpful tips you could give me to overcome fear of
people...love to hear.
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| Help Guest 15:26:35 |
| | Dear Friends,
I write this with great anguish in my heart.
For the past 14 years, I have done well in my career.
I was made Creative Director of an agency after just 5 years in my line
of work
In 1999, I had a bad setback.
However, I have managed to continue writing and consulting agencies
from my home office.
I have two siblings: an older brother in the US, and the eldest, a
sister who loves in a town 120 miles from here. My sister is separated
from her husband since 1998, and has not filed for either divorce or
alimony.
As is the tradition in India, my parents live with me and I run the
house.
In 2001, my sister underwent brain surgery for a benign tumour. My
brother and I paid the surgery bill.
For a year after the operation, I sent my sister about 15K a month to
help her through the crisis.
Often my sister borrows money from me and it is never returned.
Recently, my sister took another 20K, and I had a cash flow crisis
myself as I had to pay advance tax.
When I mentioned this, my mother and sister abused me. My mother (who
has turned into a Hare Krsna fanatic) lectured me on a brother's
duty; my sister said quote"Who asked you to be so generous?"
unquote.
This has really upset me.
I feel my sister is riding a sympathy wave. The tyranny of the weak so
to speak. Without meaning to show off, I put her in touch with the top
CEOs of major corporations, and she never reverted to them. They have
mentioned this to me.
Now I am in the process of expanding my work to Interactive and
Wireless Marketing. However, there is no peace as various members from
my extended family drop in and stay over for a month or two.
I have been accused to being to intelligent, idealistic, too
Westernized, not respecting Indian tradition, being too honest, etc.
In all this, the fact that I am battling anxiety and panic is
forgotten.
Please help.
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| OT: Question of the day.... 8/07/06 Guest 15:06:48 |
| | 8/07/06:
Todays question is being brought to you by one of our very
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Make your bed or leave it messy?
Jackie
~*~Be kind, remember everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle~*~
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| OT: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/07/06 Guest 11:42:51 |
| | 8/07/06:
Todays question is being brought to you by one of our anon poster`s
Generally speaking, on a scale of 1 to10,
how polite are you?
Jackie
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| How can depression be differentiated with Social Phobia or GAD? Anxious 09:37:47 |
| | How can depression be differentiated with Social Phobia or GAD?
I have been seeing a doc for 3-4 years. The reason I visited him for
the firt time was for depression, which he found out that i was
bipolar. The manic or depressing episodes ara gone in my perspective. I
had a great manic time before. So I know what it is like.
Telling my doc that I am ok with bipolar, I told him that I am anxious
when talking to people face to face, when i am outside. I had this long
years ago. But I couldnt name it. He told me I am social phobic. And
send me to therapy.
Realizing the anxious moments even in home, watching tv, eating etc. I
found out that this related to GAD. Anyway, I couldn't visit my doc
lastly he has been out the city. I had very bad moments and went to
another doc.
He listened to me, he told me that I am in depression. He told me,
depression is anxiety. But I am always anxious, I mean for 7-8 years I
have been social phobic.
For me this SP and lastly my GAD is making me depressive.
But for him (he only saw me once), it is depression related to bipolar
thing.
So I want to learn if anybody has an idea: How can depression be
differentiated with Social Phobia or GAD?
IS SP OR GAD CAUSED BECAUSE OF DEPRESSION? OR DEPRESSION MAKES YOU
SOCIAL PHOBIC?
thanks you all...
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| Hey there people..... Sharon 09:36:25 |
| | Haven't been around....but, I've thought of some of you now and
again....I should make more time, there is a lot to be learned here, as
well as some good home-grown entertainment.
I have been less anxious lately, and slightly less depressed. Tried
Elliot's suggestion......was it Elliot??? My mind is old and fails me
often..........but, my doc and I have added a dose of Ritalin to my
regimen, and it worked wonders at first, felt like the same happy
carefree kid I was when I was about 14.
The effect has worn off, or I've settled a bit and become discouraged
with feeling only happy, want bliss in my life........only kidding, I
think it's time to add a second dose because Ritalin has a short
half-life in your system.
So, it's been quite the summer.....raining all of the time....haven't
cared for my gardens as I should, but they're still beautiful.
Have been working on local political issues, and primarily on backing a
new fellow for Congress, an inspired left-wing Democrat, who feels that
ending the war in Iraq and staying out of the Middle East in general is
a huge priority, and that working at trying to save the environment is
another big-time issue. This guy is young and energetic and idealistic,
probably not jaded enough to be a politician......but I'm
hoping.......this is important for dealing with both anxiety and
depression, I feel........having hope, and working on something that
might bring positive change for oneself and the world. It does a lot
for me, at any rate.
Hope that you are all okay, will check in again soon.
...............Sharon
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| I saw my therapist Diana 07:54:09 |
| | My dear family;
I saw last wednesday my therapist, and Roel for a few moments.
Next week i will see my therapist again.
So i will try to talk with her about my sister.
I don't know what to say, i don't have power to do that.
It is so difficult, and it is also very emotional, and scary.
I don't want to loose myself there, and i mean that i would loose my
selfcontrol.
I can only cry when i talk about her, and the P/A is very very high.
Love Diana.
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| Re: Temp Job is Over Vicki's Husband 07:21:51 |
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"Vicki" <blahblah@blah.com> wrote in message
news:4jpn67F96t0aU1@individual.net... > Thank God. It was too far to drive back and forth but I did help my
friend. > Now, the new news is I am being courted by a company I worked for 5
years > ago. They want me back. In fact they guarantee me a job making more
money > than I ever imagined in my life. The people who hurt me there are gone, > except the one I forgave and we are ok now. The other new boss is my > hubby's best friend. He is a good friend of mine also, because we
actually > worked together a lot when I was there before.
She never had a job.
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| Re: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/07/06 Ron P 03:06:57 |
| | <Monarchdancer@gmail.com> wrote in message
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Todays question is being brought to you by one of our anon poster`s > Generally speaking, on a scale of 1 to10,> how polite are you?
Gee, I don't know. Probably something about average whatever that is.
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Monday, 7 August 2006
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| Re: Question of the day.... 8/03/06 ~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ 23:40:19 |
| | <Monarchdancer@gmail.com> wrote in message
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Todays question is being brought to you by one of our very> own anon poster`s > What irritates you most about your spouse or partner? The least?> For the currently unattached, based on your last relationship...
Well, considering I'm on the tail end of my divorce being final, I'm gonna
pass on this one b/c I'd be up all night telling y'all what irritates/or
irritated me the most about him.
If Gigglz is up to it, she can tell you a whole bunch of things!!!! Ohhhh,
if y'all only knew!!!! LOL!!!
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| Re: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/02/06 _tj_ 23:34:47 |
| | <Monarchdancer@gmail.com> wrote in message news:n5u1d2l9t22qqc41j7voj3fp5525fn0ium@4ax.com...> 8/02/06:>
Todays question is being brought to you by our very own Cathy > When was your first Anxiety Attack?> Jackie
This is a very interesting question! It is hard to answer for me
though - because I have social anxiety, I have experienced unwarranted
and excessive anxiety and fear for my whole life. But are these 'anxiety attacks'?
I would say no - I think an AA is one where you are experiencing body
symptoms for no good reason. If you have an actual reason to be afraid,
then you are experiencing 'normal' fear and anxiety (I think). My social fear
may be irrational bt it is a REAL fear for me and is darn scary!
What about if you get a fright/shock and the body symptoms continue for a
long time after the danger is gone - is that an AA/PA or just a normal fear
reaction? I had 2 minor motorbike crashes in 1999/2000 and afterwards I
had body symptoms for the whole day. Was I having AAs? I really don't
know!
I had flu in 1999 and my body was in a terrible state. I seemed to have a lot
of what I would now call anxiety symptoms - palpitations, shallow breathing
etc. Were these AAs or a normal flu symptom? I dunno!!
However, in May 2002, I had my first 'proper' AA/PA - one where there was
no detectable cause (illness/bike crash etc). It just happened for no reason.
My brain/body seemed to learn how to have them without any stimulous
on that day, and I have had them every day since. I just really want to unlearn
what I have learnt!! 
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| Re: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/06/06 Kilikini 23:34:14 |
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Todays question is being brought to you by our very own Laurie > If you want to relax in your home, what's your favorite way of doing it?> Computer? Hot bath? TV?>
Computer. Definitely. Usenet.
kili
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| Re: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/04/06 Kilikini 23:22:24 |
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Todays question is being brought to you by our very own Gigglz > Top chefs are coming over to prepare dinner for you tonight...what should they> prepare?>
Jackie
Hmmmm, good question!
Appetizers: Ahi sashimi and seared scallops wrapped in bacon. Okay, throw
in some steamed clams with garlic bread to dip in the broth. (I'm already
drooling.)
Salad: Spinach salad with bacon and a hot bacon dressing - okay, plop a
couple of egg slices on there, too, and some garlic croutons. Why not?
Soup: New England clam chowder - hands down my favorite soup.
Main: Assorted seafood: Steamed king crab, broiled lobster tail, grilled
shrimp all served with steamed aspargus spears and roasted garlic mashed
potatoes.
Dessert: A glass of tawny port
Okay, like I could eat all of that anyway, but it's not like top chefs are
coming over to my house in the first place. We can dream, right? It makes
life fun!
kili
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| Re: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/05/06 ~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ 23:09:16 |
| | <Monarchdancer@gmail.com> wrote in message
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Todays question is being brought to you by our very own Gigglz > What was the craziest thing you did as a teenager?
I had a little Ford Ranger truck. I bought it so I could throw my bike in
the back to go to the beach. One night, me and my girlfriend, Mary, went to
a new development being built. All they had were sticks up every where as
markers for where the houses would be. We drove through the dirt and
knocked everyone of them down... for the fun of it!!
This was the "nicest" version of Laurie being crazy. The other things? I
can't post them in here!!! (Oh my!)
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| OT: *Bonus* Question of the day.... 8/05/06 Guest 23:08:53 |
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Todays question is being brought to you by our very own Gigglz
What was the craziest thing you did as a teenager?
Jackie
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| Re: Question of the day.... 8/05/06 Kilikini 23:08:39 |
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Todays question is being brought to you by one of our very> own anon poster`s > Mashed potatoes, French fries or baked potatoe?>
I'm getting bored with baked (I kind of went on a spree there for a while),
I've never been a big fan of french fries, so I guess that would leave
mashed. I never get mashed potatoes often.
Wait, may I opt for tater tots????? Comfort food.......
kili
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